Certified Primal Question (PQ) Coach
You don't have to rebuild alone.
Creating Belonging. Honoring Legacy. Moving Forward.
I help men move from surviving to truly living — reconnecting with who they were created to be so they can lead their families, careers, and relationships with clarity and purpose. If you're rebuilding through divorce or a major life transition, I'd be honored to walk that road with you.
About Me
I've walked this road myself.
My own path has taken me through youth ministry, corporate banking, and physician liaison work — and through it all I've learned the same truth: real change happens when a man gets honest about his story and has someone in his corner who won't let him settle.
I'm a Certified Primal Question (PQ) Coach trained in Mike Foster's PQ framework, and I hold a B.A. in Contemporary Christian Ministry with a minor in Psychology from Fresno Pacific University. Before coaching, I spent years as a Students Community Pastor leading a middle/high school ministry, and later as a Director of Community Support in healthcare — both roles built around the same core skill: sitting with people in hard seasons and helping them find their footing.
As a single dad based in California's Tri-Valley, I know firsthand what it takes to rebuild, refocus, and lead with integrity even when life doesn't go as planned. I believe every conversation is a chance to give more than I take.
Who This Is For
Men who are done white-knuckling it alone.
I don't need you to have a diagnosis. I need you to be honest, and I'll hold the line with you while you rebuild.
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Going through divorce
You're losing the identity that came with the marriage, the routine, maybe the house. You need to know who you are on the other side of it.
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Mid a major transition
A career change, a loss, a move, a milestone birthday that hit harder than expected. Solid ground feels far away.
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High-performing, privately stuck
You handle everything for everyone else. This is the one room where you don't have to perform.
How I Work With You
A process, not a pep talk.
I build every engagement on the Primal Question framework — direct conversation, real accountability, and a clear line from where you are to where you're headed.
Name what's actually true
Before anything moves forward, I'll ask you to get honest about where you are — no performance, no minimizing.
Find the primal question underneath it
I help you name the core question driving your reactions, relationships, and decisions — usually formed long before this transition started.
Rebuild identity, on purpose
Together, we go after who you're choosing to be next — not who you were in the marriage, the job, or the role you're leaving.
Move forward with support in place
I stay accessible between sessions so the work doesn't stop when the call ends.
“I believe every conversation is a chance to give more than I take.”The philosophy behind the practice
Investment
Start with one honest conversation.
No pitch from me on the first call — just clarity on whether this is the right fit and the right time.
Step One
Clarity Call
A free, no-pressure conversation where we talk through where you are, what you're facing, and whether coaching is the right next step.
Book the CallThe Program
10-Session Foundation
A structured coaching engagement with between-session access — built for men ready to do the real work of rebuilding, not just talk about it.
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